Monday, August 4, 2008

Mancat Monday

Here we are checking out the gate in the human litter box room. Mom put it there to keep that (I want to say a word on the bad word list but I wont) woofie Jake out. Jake likes to eat poop out of our litter which makes him sick. I don't care if he gets sick but I really wish he'd leave us alone while we went. I think this will happen now that we has this gate up.

Two words for woofie Jake - STAY OUT!

I has been lookin for Fatty for a few days now. I sit by the door hoping to catch her smell. Mom,my boy and even that big male bean has opened the door for me and I do not see her. I sniff the air and smell her faintly but no sign of her. Mom keeps saying "Sorry Bobo, she isn't here anymore." but I do not understand. Where did she go? I will sit by the door some more, perhaps she will come back?

~ Shadow ~

Mommy Bean note - Shadow really is upset and keeps looking at the door where Fatty used to eat. He sniffs under it in what I think is him looking for her. It breaks my heart to see him so depressed and upset. Other than letting him sniff the area where she used to be, I can't think of what to do for him. Any suggestions?

15 comments:

Angus Mhor said...

I think that it will take love and time..Purrs, Shadow!

Name: Mr. Hendrix said...

aw, we are sorry Shadow is so upset. my mommy had brother woofies, and when one went to the Bridge, she called an animal communication person to talk to the one still here. She said, clear your mind and turn off all electronics like TVs, then talk to the animal from your 3rd eye (forehead) and say "Fatty (in for Sebastian) isn't with us in body anymore, but she is here in spirit. You will see her energy around and that is OK, but you won't see her body. She is happy on the other side and you'll see her again with the time is right."

Then just give time and love. We hope this helps. We are so sorry for your loss.

DEBRA said...

They grieve just like we do...poor Shadow missing Fatty...just give Shadow lots of love and hugs...

Purrs
Abby's Mom Debra

Gandalf and Grayson said...

Only time. That's all we could suggest.

Alasandra said...

Hi, it's Socks. I was very lonely after Whiskers died. I missed him a lot. It wasn't until Mom & Dad got Scylla & Charybdis that I stopped looking for him. I was too busy keeping those two out of trouble.~Socks

The Meezers said...

we agree, lots of love and some time. is there anything outside that would have Fatty's scent on it that you could bring in for Shadow? That might help. I was fortunate to remember to save some fur from Trixie and Norton so that when they went to the Bridge I could let Sammy and Miles sniff the furs. Miles was still a baby and really got upset and depressed.

Daisy said...

Oh Shadow, it is very confusing, isn't it? I think he just needs lots of love and attention.

PB 'n J said...

Poor Shadow, it's so hard when you lose a friend. I was really depressed for a while when my sister and brother both went to the bridge - I used to sit where they liked to for a long time. Take care Shadow!

Jake

Lux said...

I'm so sorry you're missing Fatty, Shadow. {{{hugs}}}

Mickey said...

Hi Shadow. I am so sorry you are missing Fatty.I miss her too. I miss TT. I guess it will take time and lots of love from your Mom to accept that Fatty & TT are not here anymore. Just remember all the fun times you had.
I do not know what to say about Jake eating poop!! :o
Purrs Mickey

dennisthevizsla said...

Trouble moped around for a while after her "sister" of 17 years went away. I think everyone is right, it just takes love, attention, and time (and, in Trouble's case, laxatives, but that's another story).

michico*Adan said...

I am sorry to hear about this sad things...
I knew our words can't help any further, but I think just more hugs... :(

MISS PEACH ~(^.^)~ said...

OH Shadow I am sorry you are grieving so much for Fatty and TT....it is confusing when something is no longer what it should be...we need to think differntly and that is hard when you are a cat.
Soft hugs to you Bobo....know you are loved and safe.
About Jake....well thats why I am a cat and that is that!
Lots of love from your Miss Peach

Tigmut'hep said...

Thank you for our Catster gifts that was very sweet of you all. I know how Shadow feels, when my bestest buddy Archie moved away with his family. I cried and cried until Mummy bought Ramses home to be my pet (little did I know he was going to turn into a bed hogging Mummy's boy at the time). This helped me loads though and I stopped crying for Archie straight away as Ramses kept me so busy, cause he was a scardy puss who needed a lot of talking to before he learnt that people are good again! So I suggest you get Bobo a pet of his own or maybe try some Feliway spray as that helps a cat relax. Though when in doubt I do catnip! ;)

Samantha and Mr. Tigger said...

Purrrrrrs and ((((((hugs))))) to you Shadow! We know you miss Fatty!
Your FL furiends,